From Emily P. Freeman’s The Next Right Thing and in the same vein as focusing on the main thing:
That’s one thing about an intentional no: it can open the door for a live-giving yes. When you focus on what’s missing it’s hard to see what’s there.
Just because things change doesn’t mean you chose wrong in the first place.
Just because you’re good at something doesn’t mean you have to do it forever.
Today, perhaps your next right thing is to slow down long enough to see what’s taking up space in your life, to stop looking around and to settle in and listen. If that feels hard, it could be that you’re spinning around, looking for the next hundred things rather than the next one thing.